{"id":1727,"date":"2012-05-24T14:37:00","date_gmt":"2012-05-24T14:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=1727"},"modified":"2026-01-15T17:10:47","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T17:10:47","slug":"a-love-hate-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=1727","title":{"rendered":"A Love &#8211; Hate Relationship&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a love-hate relationship with Lily of the Valley.&nbsp; I know those seemingly innocuous flowers that have delicate sprays of tiny bells &#8211; and I am surprised that someone has not written a fairy tale about how those &#8220;bells&#8221; came to be &#8211; how could anyone not just love, love, love them? &nbsp; Well I love the flowers and maybe even the green leaves for the first few weeks in May and then I realize that they are about to take over and destroy every other plant within in &#8220;ringing&#8221; distance.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<\/div>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/IMG_9479-scaled.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/IMG_9479-scaled.jpg\" width=\"213\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\">Lily of the Valley<\/td>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\"><\/td>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\"><\/td>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>\nLoathed in the garden, perhaps &#8211; but loved in lace. Some of the most exquisite lace is based on the Lily of the Valley stitch. I have the book Knitted Lace of Estonian and let me tell you, if I could find a way to create a nupp that doesn&#8217;t require micro-surgery on the return row, I would knit Lily of the Valley forever. Many designers have obviously mastered the art of the nupp and have gone on to create timeless pieces.<\/p>\n<p>I am still back at the &#8220;starting post&#8221; or &#8220;casting on post&#8221; &#8211; but I am working on it!!&nbsp; So although Lily of the Valley may be an invasive garden species &#8211; it hasn&#8217;t as yet invaded my lace designs &#8211; but for a nupp the shawl was lost &#8211; or something like that.<\/p>\n<p>Actually I did try some Lily of the Valley in DK.&nbsp; I didn&#8217;t do the nupp &#8211; just a bobble and designed this.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/sweater-scaled.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"231\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/sweater-scaled.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nHere&#8217;s a close up of the stitch.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/LV.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/LV.jpg\" width=\"275\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Actually it looks a lot better in lace; but I knit the sweater about 15 years ago &#8211; way before I ever dreamed that I could knit lace.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, back to the garden variety of Lily of the Valley &#8211; my neighbour calls them &#8211; divorce material &#8211; it seems that L of V is the only plant that her husband can grow and she is &#8220;forbidden&#8221; to dig them out. So there are stories here &#8211; Lily of the valley stories.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/IMG_9481-scaled.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/IMG_9481-scaled.jpg\" width=\"213\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>\nPlease post yours and if you have a folk tale about the origin of the plant &#8211; please share.&nbsp; Here is L of V invading another invasive species &#8211; Snow in Summer &#8211; Let the plant wars begin&nbsp; \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a love-hate relationship with Lily of the Valley.&nbsp; I know those seemingly innocuous flowers that have delicate sprays of tiny bells &#8211; and I am surprised that someone has not written a fairy tale about how those &#8220;bells&#8221; came to be &#8211; how could anyone not just love, love, love them? 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