{"id":3844,"date":"2011-10-23T14:47:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-23T14:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=3844"},"modified":"2026-01-15T17:52:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T17:52:37","slug":"six-hours-from-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=3844","title":{"rendered":"Six hours from home&#8230;&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Another mini challenge &#8211; this time it is to list one &#8220;thing or one person that has made a huge impact on your life&#8221;&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>This took a lot of thought because a lot of events and a lot of people have influenced me through my life; however, one short very casual conversation which could be summed up in about six words probably carved the path that I am on right now.<\/p>\n<p>I was 22 and planing to do some travelling in Europe for a while with a girlfriend.&nbsp; Well, about a month before we were set to leave, my friend said that she was getting engaged and would not be travelling with me.&nbsp; I was unnerved.&nbsp; I didn&#8217;t resent her decision &#8211; she is one of the most honest and stable people I know and she is still married to the same man, many years latter with children and grandchildren so it was the right decision for her.<\/p>\n<p>Now I had to decide.&nbsp; Would I go to Europe on my own or would I stay at home and maybe find another travelling companion or maybe not and maybe never realize a dream that&nbsp;I had been planning since high school. I was mulling over my choices, one day, in the staff room when a rather worldly wise colleague said to me &#8211; &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you just go &#8230;&#8230; after all you&#8217;re only 6 hours from home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The thought of being only 6 hours from home made the concept of taking on the &#8220;great unknown&#8221; so easy &#8211; if all else failed I could just hop on a plane home to safety.&nbsp; I booked my ticket with a return flight in a year.&nbsp; I just told people what I was doing and they connected me with friends and places to stay.&nbsp; I ended up staying for two years.&nbsp; It was just such an amazing experinece.&nbsp; It taught me that I could do what I wanted to do on my own and it opened my mind to&nbsp;experiences that were just so mind expanding that I couldn&#8217;t have imagined my life without them.<\/p>\n<p>Now, for every new undertaking, I look at the down side in terms of &#8220;six hours from home.&#8221;&nbsp; I probably won&#8217;t end up doing those very amazing things that require you to be a lot further from home; but, even small steps out of&nbsp;a comfortable niche can be exciting and enlightening.<\/p>\n<p>I am working on slight changes in my business structure which will require a little travel &#8211; baby steps to bigger things &#8211; take a few hours off and go somewhere you haven&#8217;t been &#8211; it could be amazing!!<\/p>\n<p>Have an adverturous day!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another mini challenge &#8211; this time it is to list one &#8220;thing or one person that has made a huge impact on your life&#8221;&#8230;.. 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