{"id":4876,"date":"2019-03-03T18:58:00","date_gmt":"2019-03-03T18:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=4876"},"modified":"2026-01-15T18:18:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T18:18:19","slug":"separate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=4876","title":{"rendered":"Separate&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our writing word for a while now has been &#8220;separate.&#8221; It may be used as the verb &#8211; to separate or the adjective, as in something set apart. I have been away for a while, separated from my usual routines, separated from the time zone of family and friends by 7 or 8 hours and separated from the goals I regularly work on.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/IMG_0782.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"1600\" data-original-width=\"1200\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/IMG_0782.jpg\" width=\"240\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>It is disorienting. Maybe time away is necessary to re-align ourselves or to make us think anew of what we are doing or trying to achieve. I&#8217;m not sure. I&#8217;m always like a fish out of water, when I don&#8217;t have the usually structures of work, family, friends, pastimes, etc. to fill my days. I then &#8220;tag along&#8221; with others and do what they do or take myself away and read or work on something &#8220;from home,&#8221; such as this post.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/fullsizeoutput_d36.jpeg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"1173\" data-original-width=\"1600\" height=\"234\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/fullsizeoutput_d36.jpeg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I have to remind myself, that I am a fixed sign, a Leo, and I prefer being rooted in my own little rut, however limiting that might be, then bowing to mutable signs, who would have me leave everything behind for a new adventure. Sigh!<\/p>\n<p>I have often thought that maybe adventure should be my routine &#8211; a contradiction in terms, perhaps. No, I have trouble constantly moving from place to place. There is this need to set down roots, get organized, &#8220;grow&#8221; something. It&#8217;s hard to grow anything, but tired, when you are in constant motion.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\">\n<a href=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/fullsizeoutput_1a2.jpeg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em;margin-right: 1em\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"498\" data-original-width=\"1300\" height=\"122\" src=\"http:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/fullsizeoutput_1a2.jpeg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I don&#8217;t mind occasional separations &#8211; time away to think. But, after a brief respite, let me get back into the busy whirl of &#8220;things to do, people to see, schedules, deadlines,&#8221; all those things that give meaning to the &#8220;ahhh&#8221; at the end of a day.<\/p>\n<p>The pictures? Random roots.<\/p>\n<p>Have a regular day!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our writing word for a while now has been &#8220;separate.&#8221; It may be used as the verb &#8211; to separate or the adjective, as in something set apart. 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