{"id":6578,"date":"2013-01-02T13:34:00","date_gmt":"2013-01-02T13:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=6578"},"modified":"2026-01-15T19:27:51","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T19:27:51","slug":"of-paradoxes-ironies-and-oxymora-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=6578","title":{"rendered":"Of Paradoxes, Ironies and Oxymora"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In an earlier post I suggested that I would look up the origin of the word Oxymoron, because it contained the word &#8220;moron.&#8221; So hear&#8217;s the scoop! &nbsp;&#8220;Oxy&#8221; comes from the Greek word for &#8220;sharp&#8221; and &#8220;moron&#8221; comes from the Greek word for &#8220;dull.&#8221; Put them together and you have &#8220;sharp\/dull&#8221; or words of opposite meaning, such as &#8211; bittersweet, deafening silence, jumbo shrimp &#8211; you get the idea. Please post any you have come across.<\/p>\n<p>Paradoxes are larger oxymora (the plural of oxymoron), such as &#8220;Less is More&#8221; or &#8220;More is Less&#8221; and from an earlier post &#8220;In my end is my beginning&#8221; or &#8220;In my beginning is my end.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ironies are large events or states that seem to be in contrast, such as the concept of being in a huge crowd but being alone, or having a lot of money, but not really having anything of value. I am going to repost here a post from the comedian George Carlin on the many paradoxes that form the irony of our &#8220;advanced&#8221; civilization.<\/p>\n<ul><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">The paradox of our time in history is that<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">we have taller buildings but shorter tempers;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We spend more, but have less;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">we buy more but enjoy less<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We have bigger houses and smaller families,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">more conveniences, but less time;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">we have more degrees, but less sense;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">more knowledge, but less judgement;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">more experts, yet more problems,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">more medicine, but less wellness.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We drink too much, smoke too much,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">spend too recklessly,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">laugh too little,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">drive too fast,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">get too angry,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">stay up too late, get up too tired,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve learned how to make a living, but not a life,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">we&#8217;ve added years to life not life to years.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We conquered outer space but not inner space.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve done larger things, but not better things.<\/span><\/b><\/ul>\n<ul><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We write more, but learn less.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We plan more, but accomplish less.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We&#8217;ve learned to rush, but not to wait.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">We build more computers to hold more information to<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">produce more copies than ever, but we communicate<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">less and less.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">big men and small character;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">steep profits and shallow relationships.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">These are the days of two incomes but more divorce,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">fancier houses but broken homes.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">throw-away morality, one-night stands,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">overweight bodies, and pills that do everything<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">from cheer to quiet, to kill.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">It is a time when there is much in the show window and<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">nothing in the stockroom.&nbsp;&nbsp; A time when technology<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">either to&nbsp; share this insight, or to just hit delete.<\/span><\/b><\/ul>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEjJuuhj2LriaJMDjS8pRJ4hi8m5UybOdUZ8lxKxtWV4qZPWaeO7rjpHCQGQ0OJMrjaHhwfvCi7Fo1kKw-YUaprHKzSCFZKCddT7CW_2zr0mLoUjAm9_tPDXTJbjUz8ojWqDDrIv\/s1600\/kids+photo.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"219\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEjJuuhj2LriaJMDjS8pRJ4hi8m5UybOdUZ8lxKxtWV4qZPWaeO7rjpHCQGQ0OJMrjaHhwfvCi7Fo1kKw-YUaprHKzSCFZKCddT7CW_2zr0mLoUjAm9_tPDXTJbjUz8ojWqDDrIv\/s1600\/kids+photo.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\">My children and their cousin<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<ul><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\"><\/span><\/b><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><b><br \/><\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">Remember, spend some time with your loved ones,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">because they are not going to be around forever.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">to you in awe, because that little person soon<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">will grow up and leave your side.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you,<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">because that is the only treasure you can give with<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">your heart and it doesn&#8217;t cost a cent.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">Remember, to say &#8220;I Love you&#8221; to your partner and<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">your loved ones, but most of all mean it.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">from deep inside of you.<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">Give time to Love, give time to speak, give time to<\/span><\/b><br \/><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman,Times\">share the precious thoughts in your mind.<\/span><\/b><\/ul>\n<div>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #3333ff;font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><b><br \/><\/b><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">I think that this message is worth contemplating from time to time, just as a way of slowing down and asking ourselves, &#8220;What&#8217;s it all about?&#8221; and to quote from a wise neighbour &#8211; &#8220;The days are long, but the years are short!!<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #3333ff\"> &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #3333ff;font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhwkZSP8I3Qf98ZvXK4P7HamPKTp-fNgavwf5QjAobu2gKRERG0KgxtF18M_glmRaiF_M9FANM4247NFsV2I_RoToX1qXbl8nk2GYCfKqQEP-u2sZUckK2D9-Yu4Z9BMNLM3h4b\/s1600\/family+photo.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"240\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhwkZSP8I3Qf98ZvXK4P7HamPKTp-fNgavwf5QjAobu2gKRERG0KgxtF18M_glmRaiF_M9FANM4247NFsV2I_RoToX1qXbl8nk2GYCfKqQEP-u2sZUckK2D9-Yu4Z9BMNLM3h4b\/s1600\/family+photo.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center\">Family Christmas 2011<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">I took pictures of pictures already in a frame. I think that they suggest fading memories. Good to have, but better to have the real thing, if you can for as long as you can!!<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #3333ff;font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\">Have a thoughtful day!!<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"color: #3333ff;font-family: 'Times New Roman', Times\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\"><b><br \/><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In an earlier post I suggested that I would look up the origin of the word Oxymoron, because it contained the word &#8220;moron.&#8221; So hear&#8217;s the scoop! &nbsp;&#8220;Oxy&#8221; comes from the Greek word for &#8220;sharp&#8221; and &#8220;moron&#8221; comes from the Greek word for &#8220;dull.&#8221; Put them together and you have &#8220;sharp\/dull&#8221; 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