{"id":8722,"date":"2021-02-24T02:48:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-24T02:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=8722"},"modified":"2026-01-15T20:12:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T20:12:19","slug":"in-the-grey-of-a-february-day-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifeiswhathappens.ca\/?p=8722","title":{"rendered":"In the grey of a February day&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;I may have hit my seasonal nadir. Hmmmm Feb. 23, 2021, a day after thinking day. Twenty years and a day, after I was diagnosed with breast cancer. How does one measure time? Certainly the highs and lows of the human experience come to mind. Do you..<\/p>\n<p>1. Measure time, as a distance from birth &#8211; obviously your own, your siblings? your children? your parents, a favourite author, celebrity, friend?<\/p>\n<p>2. Measure time, as relative to significant events &#8211; world wars, moon landings, pandemics, inventions and interventions.<\/p>\n<p>3. Measure time, as data projections &#8211; the average life span for a woman is 82 years. My mother died at 83. My father died at 104 &#8211; defying all odds, but that in itself defined him.<\/p>\n<p>4. Measure time as the objectives you have set for yourself and accomplished, or nor, as the case may be. I have set many goals for myself &#8211; travel, family, vocation, self-employment, creative pursuits. I&#8217;m probably 85% &nbsp;realized in this measure. Does one every reach 100%? It may be a reason to keep moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>5. Measure time as your contribution to the human condition. How many lives have you saved, enriched, fostered?<\/p>\n<p>6. Measure time as your contribution to nature. How many endangered species have you preserved; how much have you reduced, recycled, reused, repurposed&#8230;&#8230;this in itself is a life&#8217;s work.<\/p>\n<p>7. Measure time as the constant change of the seasons, the neighbourhood, the government&#8230;.this is something that is on-going &#8211; change is the only constant. How do we become a meaningful part of the &#8220;constant?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>8. Measure time as diary or log entries. Do you record what is meaningful or not in the day-to day rhythms of life?<\/p>\n<p>9. Measure your life in daily challenges. I try to do as many as I can&#8230;or remember to do. However, over the past week or so, I have undertaken the painting of my daughter&#8217;s room. She has flown the coop and I have been left with the &#8220;poop&#8221; &#8211; so to speak. To save some money and to rise to a challenge, I have patched, sanded, primed and am about to paint ceilings, walls and woodwork of an average sized bedroom. This is a therapy I would never have imagined I needed. Say naught that the challenge not availeth!!<\/p>\n<p>In the grey of a February day, there is something about the white of a primer that clears the mind, covers the scars and leads the way to a new and peaceful place to be.<\/p>\n<p>Oh and did I mention, I have new windows&#8230;..there is something about windows that lets in, not only the light, but the life on even the greyest of February days!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;I may have hit my seasonal nadir. Hmmmm Feb. 23, 2021, a day after thinking day. Twenty years and a day, after I was diagnosed with breast cancer. How does one measure time? Certainly the highs and lows of the human experience come to mind. Do you.. 1. 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